Embrace your Inner Goddess

April 20, 2009

Embrace Our Sexual Organs Part 2

Filed under: Culture,Dating,Life,Love,Men,Relationships,Romance,Sex,Thoughts,Women — by goddesspower978 @ 2:54 pm

If you haven’t read my blog “Embrace your Sexual Organs,” blog please read that first. It’s so important to Embrace our Sexual Organs Part 2. Thank you! Here we go with Part 2: Have you ever wondered why a guy can be so “rough” and isn’t into the soft and tender lovemaking that woman adore? Did you know there is a scientific and biological reason behind our sensitivity?

A woman has roughly 8000 nerve endings on her clitoris. A man has roughly HALF that on his penis.

Yup. Read that again. Women are blessed with double the fun and feeling! Yay! Let’s celebrate that! I found this information during my own celebration for my sexual organs. It’s from a wonderful book called “Extended Massive Orgasm” by Drs. Vera and Steve Bodansky. You ready for a little…ahem…mind-blower from the book?

“The clitoris is here to have a good time. It is the center of all orgasm (in spite of what Dr. Freud thought). Its only function is to experience exquisitely pleasurable sensations. The only other organ whose sole function is pleasure is the male nipple, and they are not in the same league. More nerves fill the clitoris that fill the head of the penis: approximately eight thousand nerves, about twice as many as the penis has. This is particularly amazing since the clitoris’s only function is pleasure, while the penis has other functions: urination and impregnation. About fifteen thousand nerve fibers, all told, service a woman’s pelvis.”


Whenever I’ve told this to my male friends, they are genuinely surprised. They have no clue we have this many nerve endings to…can’t help it…”play with.” LOL. A lot of my female friends don’t know either. So how is a man supposed to know how to please us if we aren’t aware of all the power we possess? If our sexual organs aren’t given proper names, etc? (Embrace our Sexual Organs blog)

It’s up to us. Pure and simple. A man knows what he has to do personally to have an orgasm. He, in his “uniformed” way, is doing what he thinks is the right thing in order to please us. He has no idea what 8000 nerve endings feel like. It’s up to us to KNOW what turns us on, and to communicate communicate communicate. We can’t use anger. A loving, caring, loving man just wants to please us. It’s up to us to toss away the years of frustration (if we have it) and not take it out on him. We take control by being proactive in our own pleasure, ridding our bodies of “man” frustration (kick boxing anyone?) and then communicating our needs back in a way he understands. (see my communicating in a mans’ language blog)

If you have a partner that is gentle and listens…thank him! He had a wonderful teacher and you have HER to thank! If not…talk to your partner. Don’t judge him. Tell him what you just discovered. Buy Vera and Steve’s book and read it together. If you’re single, the book is just as helpful. There are exercises for the single as well as the paired.

There is so much in this subject we will explore together. I would really love to know if you knew this mind-blowing biological fact about your clitoris. You can email me privately at goddesspower978@hotmail.com.

So in review:
1. Please enjoy my “Embrace Your Sexual Organs” blog.
2. Celebrate your gorgeous sexual organs and all they do.
3. Research. Study the book by the Bodansky’s, and embrace the sensual part of you!

Love, Goddess



  1. i disagree with most things said! but then again who am i to decide, some good points taken though 🙂

    Comment by james firth — April 21, 2009 @ 12:46 am

  2. Actually I did know this fact. I heard about it like 2 years ago and was amazed. I even heard something like a womans orgasm is like 20 times more powerful than a mans. Isnt that something?


    Comment by 2fatfriends — April 21, 2009 @ 1:34 pm

  3. Thank you James for taking the time to reply to my post.
    One of my goals is to create better communication between men and women. This blog is a place where men and women can discuss anything respectfully. No judgement. It would be helpful to know what you disagreed with and why. The same for what you thought were the “good points.”
    Love, Goddess

    Comment by goddesspower978 — April 21, 2009 @ 2:46 pm

  4. Thank you so much for your reply, Kristie!
    I’m so glad that you knew this information about the female orgasm. I learned from the Bodansky book that women can have 15 second or more orgasms. They teach you how. Mine were always fantastic, but the book made them even more so.
    Yay Women! Love, Goddess

    Comment by goddesspower978 — April 21, 2009 @ 2:54 pm

  5. Hmmm…. I like things rough at times-however, there is no good excuse for rough sex ALL of the time…unless of course, that is what both partners want.

    It is interesting, how much the emotional/mental side of things can block us from experience our sexual potential to it’s fullest. Ha, kick boxing for sure!

    Comment by theladymel — May 7, 2009 @ 2:41 pm

  6. Brilliantly said, Lady! Love, Goddess

    Comment by goddesspower978 — May 7, 2009 @ 7:21 pm

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